Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Family,and friends of Marc Fearns. Our son is also in 1 BW. Our prayers are with all of Marc's family during this time of deep sorrow. I hope the following poem will be of some comfort to you.
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die.